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January 25, 2011

Everyday Rituals and Ceremonies by Lorna St Aubyn

"Today, ritual has almost disappeared from Western society... In many people's lives the only important milestone or rite to be observed is their funeral. Other major events of all kinds remain unacknowledged; no cycles are defined. Instead of celebrating beginnings and endings and transition points, we drift through the years, dragging behind us tatters of the past which should have been unequivocally buried. This in term prevents us from stepping into the future whole heartedly.
"The return to performing rituals is one way to reinstate a belief in the connectedness of all life. In today's society many people feel a sense of separation and isolation. For many there is a nagging sense that there must be something more to life. Rituals can help us to see we are part of something larger, a part of a living breathing earth. They can give us a feeling of unity and a sense of security and support in an increasingly difficult world. We can again begin to sense the sacredness in the ordinary which can add the depth and meaning so often missing from our lives."

~Lorna St Aubyn  in Everyday Rituals and Ceremonies

This book is not so much one for reading straight through as it is a reference book for specific rituals. I did not read every page, I just skimmed through it and read a few of the specific rituals. It is not a religious ritual book, although the rituals do usually connect to Nature/Mother Earth or the elements in some way. It would be very easy to adapt these rituals to your own needs and beliefs.
Honestly it was not my favorite ritual book, because so much is already laid out that it feels like it takes more effort to adapt these rituals than it would to just invent one from scratch. Most of the rituals are fairly complex, and involve lots of props and steps. However, for someone who wanted something to start with, this might be a good resource book.
The thing I appreciated the most was the kinds of things this book had rituals for. For example, most of us recognize the validity of doing a ritual for the birth or death of a person, but isn't it also appropriate to formally recognize the death of a beloved family pet? Other changes, such as starting a new job, having surgery, or even just responding to a public event (political or social) can be valid reasons for holding a ritual.

Here is a list of some of the rituals in the book:
  • Rituals for life stages (puberty, menstruation, marriage, naming ceremony, child leaving home, divorce, menopause, becoming a parent-in-law, retirement, death)
  • Rituals for your spiritual journey (incarnation, taking your power, re-attaching yourself to the Source)
  • Rituals for traumatic events (rape, abuse, before surgery, abortion, miscarriage, a public tragedy, death of an animal)
  • Rituals for new beginnings (ending therapy, the end of an illness, leaving an organization, making resolutions, a birthday, starting a new project).
  • There is also a section of rituals for opening/closing/healing each chakra.

3 comments:

  1. What IS your favorite ritual book or at least one you would more highly recommend? I am looking to start building my library and since I cannot get books from a local library I want to make sure those that I buy come highly recommended!

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  2. I am working on a review for "The Art of Ritual: creating and performing ceremonies for growth and change" by Renee Beck & Sydney Barbara Metrick which I am liking quite a bit more. It has a couple of specific rituals explained, but mostly it spends a lot of time talking about why do rituals, and talking about various sorts of symbols (symbols of elements, of people, of time, etc) and basically just providing lots of ideas of ways to come up with your own rituals. It even has workbook sections, which I admit I ignore, but they have some good questions in them. :)

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  3. This is the one I would recommend http://motherwheel.blogspot.com/2011/02/art-of-ritual-by-beck-and-metrick.html
    :)

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